Transactional Sex - honest opinions
First things first, I am not referring to sex work, though I personally think to each their own. I have a friend who has proposed the idea of hooking up occasionally, but the manner in which she’s brought it up feels more like transaction than connection. Where do people fall on the pros and cons of entertaining this kind of sexual activity whilst trying to overcome porn & masturbation addiction. Thanks in advance to anyone who chooses to reply. FYI, while I have zero qualms with all the religious posts here and everyone having their faith, it is not part of the equation for me.
Religious views aside, after reading the discussion so far, I would not underestimate the slippery slope aspect. Once you get a taste of the sex, it’ll either be really good that you’ll be more inclined to seek more sexual satisfaction, which could trigger a phase of relapse and ruining all the progress you’ve made so far. Or you try it and the sex is lame because there’s no genuine connection. At that point you’re both just using each other for your bodies, which is objectifying each other and really the same thing done/mindset we have when we look at the women in porn. To sum, the temptation is not worth the potential destruction it can cause.