I’m lonely chat
Day 17
by Jonathan
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Ngl guys.. I’m 26 and haven’t experienced much intimacy in my life. Probably because of porn, holding me back. Keeping me away from rejection and numbing my motivation.. When I see people connecting with partners in the world, and movies.. it builds this desire in me to find that for myself. Over the course of my 17 days so far, today has been the most difficult. My reason for quitting is to have a romantic relationship. Something real.
You say you feel a desire to find something for yourself, that's really good. Use that desire and treat it as an exciting thing instead of a nervous thing. You have drive and passion to search, now all you have to do is put yourself into situations where you can be found by that someone. Have patience, it takes time for these things to come. No better time to start than now, it's amazing you set a hard goal to quit and are on day 17, that's INCREDIBLE! Do not undervalue your daily victories, they add up and can motivate you to continue striving forward