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<Need Advice> Guilt/Shame for Regular masturbation

Day 52
by G
21 upvotes

I was talking to my girlfriend and we decided I’d come back to being sexual intimate with her online. Usually for us this includes erotic audios or stories. But I still feel like gut feeling of shame/guilt for masturbation of any kind, even if it is controlled, limited and managed carefully. Has anyone who’s been on a long streak and allowed themselves this pass feel anything similar? Any Advice?

Comments (4)
Chris172d ago

My girlfriend likes watching me come from masturbation (not video/inline, just when we’re having sex) and I recently had that thought while having sex with her. We spoke about and now I’m fine with it, I live here excitement when she watches me getting all excited - guess it’s part of a good strong healthy relationship, where anything is allowed as long as both agree and both enjoy.

Jackson172d ago

Personally tho I don’t think I would do it. 52 days is quite a long streak and you’re so close to that 90 day goal.

Jackson172d ago

I would say if you don’t want to you don’t have to do it. If you don’t think it’s right it’s completely fine to stand your ground and stick to something. At the end of the day it’s your choice tho bro

Anonymous172d ago

You feel that guilt cos you know deep down you’re doing the wrong thing. So stop with this „online intimacy“ and seek Jesus, amen

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