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Idk anymore

Day 0
by Daniel
1344 upvotes

This is a bigger problem for me than just watching porn or finding enjoyment in it. For me this is a mental battle. My now ex recently broke up with me and 2 days after we broke up she started adding guys on her phone she said it’s because she wants to get over me. But idk what that means because I spent countless nights trying to figure it out and figure what I could do to have her back in my life. I have done physical sexual things with her and that connection hurts to know that she needs other men for validation. My addiction to porn is abusive. I watch it to cover the pain. I watch it thinking of my ex sleeping with other men. As crazy as it sounds I know I’m not okay. And everything hurts. I want this addiction to be gone and I wanna live my life comfortably again without having to abuse my body and my mind. If anyone sees this. I just wanna know everything is gonna be okay. I wanna know that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel

Comments (5)
Aeron62d ago

My bro, everything that you’re going through right now is because of sin. God designed sex only for the purpose of marriage and all of the negative things everyone on this app is going through is the reason why. Cry out to him he’s can pull you out of this darkness. Romans 5:8 “God demonstrated his love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Cameron62d ago

It’s okay man we are here with you to grow as a community and people

You62d ago

Leave her be bro, no blame game or anything. Remove her. This is the light. As for the frustration bubbling up within u, only time can heal that, that is if you let it. Continuing this relationship with porn is bad as it scars u more n more. Breath fresh air by doing tasks, improving yourself, and so on stuff that people above mentioned suggested. Anyways know that I am always here to talk to ☺️

Anonymous62d ago

The worst downfalls come with great victories. Use this as motivation to become the greatest version of yourself G. Think about it, if you sink and go even lower, she basically won in front of you. But if you become a G in all areas of life, she didn’t deserve you in the first place. Get rich, become combat ready, make yourself more handsome, connect with individuals on the same track as you, and just always use her abandonment as fuel to prove to her what she had to lose for being a hoe Love my bro!

Dustin62d ago

dw mane sum similar happened to me which is why I got this app to I started yesterday and trust me you’ll start feeling better after one day. If she wants to sleep with others its on her all it means is that your value is higher and you were way out of her league. Instead of focusing on her try to focus on bettering yourself and trust me more girls will come. We are in this together man and dw you gon get through this god bless you mane.

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