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I’m a loser

Day 20
by Angelica
78 upvotes

I don’t go out because I have no friends. Everyone works and nobody wants to go out often and we don’t keep in touch constantly. I don’t put on the effort to meet up all the time but even when I do, people are flaky and forgetful and indecisive. I just want to have friends like I did in high school. It’s starting to look as if I peaked in high school and then other than work I have nothing going on for me. I have no hobbies. No friends. No social life. Fuck. I don’t even have any basic life skills like cooking. I can’t fry a single fucking egg. I have never tried. I just leave everything to my mum like a fucking loser. I am a loner and loser.

Comments (12)
Angelica53d ago

Thank you everyone. I do think it’s best to do something about it rather than be sulking

Chet53d ago

And Nolan is an idiot . Dont listen to him. Not time for tough love Nolan

You53d ago

You are not a loser. Chin up. I believe you will find your way. Just dont give up.

Nathaniel53d ago

You are not a loser Angelica and you are not alone

Nolan 53d ago

Yes you are. Now do something about it

Angelica53d ago

Thanks everyone ❤️

Anonymous53d ago

I gat friends so I Kant relate but da biggest way ta overcome this shit is too just get really interested in sum else or get caught by smby yu ain’t gon wabt ta beatcho shit no mo

Chet53d ago

My heart hurts for you right now and I hope and pray that you can find peace and comfort. God bless you, Angelica .

Chet53d ago

I’m sorry you feel this way Angelica. But these are all lies. You are loved you are desired. You are wanted. The enemy and the mind plays tricks. Don’t let it win. Your life is just beginning. Trust me. If I can make a friendly suggestion, if you don’t already, I would wake up With gratitude each morning. It helps me quiet the noise just know you are loved and I believe in you!

Joshua 53d ago

You are not a loser , I’m in the exact same position with no friends but I recommend finding a place you can go out and find community like a church or gym etc. There are lots of people lonely nowadays and that doesn’t make you a loser you are just going through a tough season that seems like it won’t end but it can and will. I don’t know what your beliefs are but if you haven’t known before there is a friend we can have in Jesus and he can make a way for you. I will think of you in my prayers Angelica because trust me I’m in the exact same situation as you not having the friends I had during High school.

Joshua 53d ago

You are not a loser , I’m in the exact same position with no friends but I recommend finding a place you can go out and find community like a church or gym etc. There are lots of people lonely nowadays and that doesn’t make you a loser you are just going through a tough season that seems like it won’t end but it can and will. I don’t know what your beliefs are but if you haven’t known before there is a friend we can have in Jesus and he can make a way for you. I will think of you in my prayers Angelica because trust me I’m in the exact same situation as you not having the friends I had during High school.

Brian53d ago

The best time to plant a tree is now. I remember feeling that a while ago then I started just doing things . First dumb idea. Trying real estate. Realized I hated it and really was trying a get rich quickz ultimately failing. Then it was I want to build an app. Meaning I would have to start over learn to code took a year and a half to get my first app out. Just do a thing and if not the right thing. You did something. no progress or a few steps back doesn’t mean you are going in the wrong direction. Some movement like failure is better than none!

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