Found my "WHY"
Day 0
by Sebastian
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Hey guys, I think I know why I feel like I need porn and masturbation, although I don't. Whenever I feel like I'm NOT advancing, aka stagnating, I feel like I'm failing. And when I feel that, immediately, a huge wave of terrifying guilt hits me. And that's when the urge comes and tries to destroy my life. But it won't, cause Jesus died for me, too. As he did for you. Stay strong fellas, Seb.
Very common trigger for men. Stagnating brings you shame, shame causes relapse. Recognizing the why is the most important part, replacing the urge with something else when you notice you feel this way is the next step in my experience. I’m only 7-8 days in so not set in stone yet, but I will be.