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My situation :/ any help. Or guidance.

Day 0
by Anonymous
70 upvotes

Hey guys, already posted a similar situation on the group chat but. Here goes, Like many of us, started young, increasing got worse. My situation: I’ve been disciplined with my corn consumption. But I have replaced that with sexting or bring over sexual with girls on dating apps. I’m sickened with myself as I’m more perverted, and don’t actually make any real connections or relationships. To give you context I’m not a bad looking dude ( if I say so myself 😂😂😂 ) but even the not so attractive girls don’t even give me the time of day anymore. It feels like vicious cycle, I earn for that next sexually charged conversation on dating apps or snap, get my fix and leave. Done. But then I’m here lonely, depressed, on my own, but I crave that feeling and fix, all due to my imagination and the sexually charged conversations. I hate it! Soon as I cum, I’m like okay I don’t need to think about that for a short while. Anyway, I think it’s more or less other problems I have. All I know is, I don’t like how mentally disturbed I am, I don’t like my triggers, I don’t like any of it. ;/ Any advice or suggestions? I’d honestly appreciate it. Thanks

Comments (2)
Anonymous•190d ago

Appreciate that one mate, thank you. Definitely has ruined some meaningful relationships I’ve had in the past where it could have gone somewhere.

Jalen•190d ago

I kind of do that same thing bro, getting my fix from sexting and what now. It never goes any where and usually ends up ruining something that could have gone somewhere with a sweet girl. Being able to be in that moment and distinguish lust and genuine feelings of affection has helped me. For example, when I am tempted to start sexting or see an opportunity to be horny I try to stop and think “what’s my goal here” and if it’s just to get that fix I won’t send it anymore. lol kinda rambled on about a simple tactic but seriously just having the power to stop and think before you press send has really helped me

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