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ending it

Day 8
by Chase
266 upvotes

Now that i think of it. i have no hope in life. being exposed to porn when i was 13 fucked my life up. i’m sitting here now with the fact that i’ve never had a girlfriend or an intimate relationship with a girl. still a virgin now that I’m 21 yrs old. over the last few days i’ve been thinking of ending my life because of it. i don’t know what to do. -If you have any questions or want to know more i’ll try to respond to comments bc I’m desperate right now to quit.

Comments (18)
Josh166d ago

Don’t stop fighting. Future you will thank you, and so will the people that love you

Duncan 166d ago

When you fix how you look and how you feel everything else will fall into place.

Duncan 166d ago

Bro I was exposed to this bullshit when I was 8. Been gooning all the way until now and I’m 22! From the sound of it, you need to work on your self image. I’d suggest eating a ton of food and smashing the gym every change you get. My life is pretty together other than this fucking demon spawn porn. I believe in you, 6 months of working on yourself can change your entire life!

Chase166d ago

Thank you guys for the support i really appreciate it and i try to go to the gym everyday but since i have a full time job and school it’s been really difficult going to the gym everyday, and i am religious im catholic but i need to turn to God more, i rarely go to church and im going to start to go more often.

Ben166d ago

Brother my first experience with porn was when I was 11 I’ve been on this dark road for over 13 years daily looking at porn and listing after women. Hell my fiancé just left me because of it. But that doesn’t mean we can just end it trust me man I’m at where you’re at I want this to end but I can’t do that and neither can you. The lord God has placed a calling upon your life look to him in your time of need

Anonymous166d ago

Don’t you even think about it!

Anonymous166d ago

Don’t you quit!

Anonymous166d ago

Don’t do it Chase. There is a light at the end of the tunnel man. Just keep fighting

Anonymous166d ago

I love you and that’s why I will tell you the truth. Life without God is meaningless. But the creator came to earth to give new life. Truly you must be born again. The good news is that this isn’t something you’re going to do yourself but a gift from God. I know you know there is a God. You don’t need to be a slave to sin for the son can set you free. It’s time to repent and believe the gospel. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. God gives us new life through faith. that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, 4 and that He was buried, and that He was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, 5 and that He appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve. 6 After that He appeared to more than five hundred brothers at one time, most of whom remain until now, but some have fallen asleep. 7 After that, He appeared to [c]James, then to all the apostles, 8 and last of all, as [d]to one untimely born, He appeared to me also. Go read Roman’s 7 & 8 praying for you

Search 166d ago

I was in your same boat man only I’m younger, I was exposed to porn at the age of 10 and since then I’ve been watching it non stop and I to felt like there was no hope, I to have not had an intimate relationship with a girl and the main reason was because I was addicted to porn. Ive now been clean for 133 days and let me tell you it was a journey. Something you need to understand is that you will not quit in a day, it took me years to quit and it was a struggle. I highly recommend seeking professional help, I was able to stop by wpending money have porn blockers making porn unwatchable. There are many ways you can completely block porn and I recommend seeking those routes. This addiction has the same addictive levels as herion so quitting will be extremely hard, the only difference is that it is a mind game. What truly helped me quit was every single time I thought about porn I would close my eyes and picture my self 10 years from now, this helped me paint a picture that this addiction will ruin my life someday and that helped a lot. Having a girlfriend doesn’t mean anything, what truly matter is you overcoming this addiction

Anonymous166d ago

Recovery isn’t linear—there’s ups and downs!! This shame and hatred is BECAUSE of this addiction, not you. You are a beautiful soul that was given the opportunity to live full of love and happiness and that was stolen from you. However, you’re on the path to recovery!!! Step back from this feeling and think how far you’ve come. There was a day you didn’t pursue growth. You are now, and you’ll continue to as you keep up your journey. Don’t steal your happiness away, let’s all share in it together

Jayden Galhandro166d ago

Don’t do it my man. Stay strong

Isaiah Brown166d ago

Brother there’s much more to life than lust, I myself am in the same situation as you where I’m still a virgin and have never had any sort of relationship, but I know things will get better. It can only go up from here is a great saying, get in the gym, get your 8 hours of sleep and get more attractive. Haircuts frequently, clean up your diet and you’ll be loving life. I currently have a good addiction I can’t stop ordering fast food but I know what I need to do so I’m making a change, it’s just difficult. You got it man, we got it

Gabriel166d ago

Brother, ending it will only hurt those that love you. It’s never worth it. It’s ok to be desperate. For most of us this is the biggest battle we’ll ever face. Turn to GOD, follow him and believe he loves you and has a path for you that will lead to happiness and peace. Work out, join clubs, do things that bring your joy back. One day at a time 💪🏽

Taylor166d ago

Hey man listen I don’t know you and I don’t know your story. I won’t sit here and pretend I do. What you go through and the feelings you have felt are yours and it’s easy for me to tell you life gets better when I’m not the one living your life. Understand though I can definitely empathize with you. Whether you wan’t to believe it or not I can understand your situation. Life is not easy and it’s not meant to be. Idk what you believe in, but whatever you consider a higher power understand the life/journey you’ve been blessed with isn’t meant to be easy. The beauty in triumph comes from overcoming that of which we struggled with. I’m 25 and just got my first girlfriend. There is no blueprint or timeline for life. Continue to push forward for the results come after the work is put in. It’s not fun or great now, but know there is a life willing to love you and place you where you need to be as long as you keep going. “Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.” ‭‭James 1:12

Chase166d ago

thank you i’ll look in to that book 🙏

Anonymous166d ago

Ending it is never the answer. If you want, the book “the easy peasy way to quit pornography” is a solid way to quit and change your mind frame on everything.

JD166d ago

Don’t do it man you’re so young you’ve got so much life to live, don’t let this roadblock be the end of your journey

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