My girl and I are pretty intimate, but it’s only me pleasuring her and it’s always the same thing. I’ve asked for head from her or for her to do more work and it never happens, do you think she could be avoiding me or doesn’t enjoy doing it?
You need to get close emotionally and bond first. Figure out what’s causing her to have her guard up. There’s way too many reasons this could be happening so start narrowing down.
When it’s come to your relationship my advice is always to remember that you never want to pressure her to do something she is not ready to do. I think you should address this with her and ask her if there is something stopping her. Never adopt the attitude that she owes you intimacy because you gave it to her. All the best brother🤝🏽
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My girl is pretty much the same way. The only thing she enjoys is sex and receiving oral. Giving she never seems to enjoy. I don’t know how similar this may be for you but since we started dating I had been addicted to porn, and things she would do was never enough, so she would get tired often because it would take a lot more effort on her part, eventually leading to her not enjoying it. Perhaps it’s something similar? If so, you need to take a step back from intimacy for a week or 2, let your body reset and stay off all forms of porn. After those 2 weeks, ease back into it and continue avoiding porn. Step by step you’ll see a difference. But more importantly you need to focus on making those deep emotional connections with her.