I’ve been talking to this girl for several months and I attempted to cheat on her after becoming exclusive at my own suggestion. She found out immediately and now I am blocked on everything. She confronted me and I feel like an absolute piece of shit. She was my second chance and I ruined it by chasing momentary pleasure. I hate having the self awareness to recognize my flaws but not having the discipline to change them.
Thank you for that honesty. She does deserve the world and I’m not the man to give it to her. There’s nothing for me to do but to learn from this and grow and keeping working towards a better me. I hope our paths will cross again one day but I know they probably won’t.
im so sorry that this happened to you but as a female and with the circumstances, she just deserves someone better who won’t find something in someone else. I got cheated on before and it was almost the worst heart pain I have ever felt. My advice for you would be to change that thought process and work on yourself for the next girl that will come around in your life :)
Opportunity I guess. She was attractive and flirtatious. It was initially her idea but then kinda got cold feet. I don’t know if I would’ve followed through but the attempt was bad enough
Why did you attempt to cheat on her? If you don’t mind me asking
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Never say never! If it’s meant to be it always comes back :) but if she ever comes back (don’t get your hopes up) don’t make the same mistake again.