Serious Question ⁉️
Gentlemen, I recently moved and am in a long distance relationship. I have been a proponent of not orgasming unless it is with your partner (at least during the beginning of your recovery) to prevent relapse. I am wondering what the community thinks about FaceTime video calls with your partner. I have deleted all the nudes of my partner from my phone and do not want to masturbate to those because I am worried my brain (especially so early in my recovery) will begin to associate them with pornography. I don’t want to see my partner like that, or any woman for that matter. I will be away from my partner for 2 months before I see her again and after I visit her for about a month, I will only see her during Christmas and the summer for the next 2 or so years. Do you think sensual video calls are different that still images, videos, or pornography?? Generally curious. Thank you!
Maybe find a new partner if it’s going to be a long long term thing. Sounds bad but you are going to wanna release that sexual energy and masturbation is not an option