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Odd Fixations… Normal?

Day 4
by Anthony
364 upvotes

Hey! This is my first post here. I’m currently four days in, and I’m having pretty intense cravings. I’ve been addicted for so long that I can’t even remember when I started. For some background, I’m just finishing college, and I’ve never had a relationship. Like, any sort of romantic experience, lol. No kissing, hugging, any of that. Lately, I noticed I’ve had a fixation on finding someone, around the time I started trying to end this addiction. Is this normal? Does this happen to others? Is it like, a coping mechanism or something?

Comments (3)
Anthony95d ago

I see… So it is normal, You. I kind of figured, it was too much of a coincidence. And D, thank you. I am Christian, and finding another Christian girl is difficult, but I’m going to keep praying over it. I’m smart enough to look at others who fell into the same trap of the first person who showed interest, and it usually didn’t end up well

D95d ago

Just don’t fall for the trap of just dating the first person to show interest. Talk to your friends and family about the person when you find them and don’t ignore red flags. Being alone for so long will have you just accept the love you think you deserve but you deserve much more than bare minimum or someone who will cheat or talks to other people. And if you are a Christian make sure she is too.

You95d ago

Yeah that's totally normal. Now go znd TALK to people and ask yourself on how you'd be a nice lover/partner, don't underestimate your worth, dont objectify others,smile and assume your own weaknesses and strenght. You're worthy of love and loving someone

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