Tempted
Soooo is fapping without porn a problem? Or no? Someone please help
bro if ur horny just have sex brah
Your talking about quitting two different things, doubling the weight and effort. Rn I’m just quitting porn, try that out and see how it goes. If you do a solid let’s say 90s days, then try quoting masturbating
I would count fapping as a whole, a relapse. People claim it’s good but i don’t buy into that bs. I just avoid it l
Falling with porn is the worst, but falling too much in general is also bad it’s still negative stimulation and secretion of your life force. That’s why the refusal of masturbstion is huge and your life will make major pivotal changes and improvements when you abstain. The best way however is when it’s through love with a spouse, as it’s not in the form of lust
I count it as a relapse. I follow God and my body is his temple. I’m disobeying God by not having self control. I need him to break this sin because i cannot on my own power
What do you want? If you’re trying to eliminate it completely, then your protocol should be to eliminate it. If you’re okay doing it, define exactly how often and under what circumstances you’re okay doing it and see if that changes anything. The goal is to make sure the grown up brain is in charge, not the monkey brain that just wants to give in to urges.