I need help
Day 0
by Carl
35 upvotes
I just lost a 20 day streak. I can’t do this anymore I hate porn until the ten minutes I like don’t have control of my body. 20 DAYS!!! I’m afraid I’ll loose all the blessings in be gotten so far for abstaining. Does anyone have advice???
No fap is a process in which you are not only expected to fail, but meant to. With all roads there are ups and downs. You have gone 20 days consecutively without masturbating, you should be very proud of yourself. Because now you KNOW you can do it. Set another goal for 25 days next time. And so on. I guarantee the longer you abstain each time, the less likely you’ll want to do it at all. It is a complete fallacy to believe that just because you fapped once after 20 days that all your progress is gone. A streak is nothing but a number, it doesn’t take into account all of the hard work and resilience that you’ve built in over time. Keep it up. You can do this, you’ve already shown that you can, now believe it.