Tired of relapsing
Day 1
by Gans
14 upvotes
IVE been gradually improving my mindset and getting more and more irritated at the porn. And the fact I seek to watch it. Now, if I do see it, I get annoyed and swipe away because……I’m just sick of the cycle. Ive been in relationships, and I’m not chasing after them for sex either. For my own reason. Right now, I’m just tired. Relapsing and releasing is extremely frustrating, and I find going to get a girlfriend frustrating too. It’s such an uncomfortable position to be in. Is anyone else feeling this way? No porn, but no relationship either? And no hookup culture participation, so no sex?
Been practically a virgin for close to a decade but, been on and off porn for years. Highest I've gone is month (cause I had lots of work to do). Best thing is to notice the triggers, and keep away from them. And something I've recently been doing is working on my hobbies, craft, work. Building a serious relationship with God also helps (if you're religious). But it's basically using the feeling and time you'd have spent looking for the right videos to nut too. Build something and if you've got nothing drink water and sleep. I pray you overcome this!!!!