Started this journey to be better for my girlfriend. I made some mistakes and they hurt her. So I started the journey to better myself for her. It doesn’t matter now because we left me. I gave it my all and she still ended it. I’m hurting, I’m trying to look to the Lord for guidance, but I feel so alone right now.
Don’t worry king. You are bettering yourself and that’s what matters. Next time don’t give the girl all of yourself. That will put her in a position of power over you, and put you at a disadvantage. The only thing that matters is Attraction & Respect. If she has these two for you she will never leave you Work on yourself to become more attractive and become a bit more arrogant. That will help you. Cause nice guys finish last because they are easy and unattractive
I think the biggest thing you can do for yourself in this situation is pray man yes your being tested right now and your still holding up and looking to others is always a good way to find answers but always keep in mind an easy life isn’t a life worth living yes stability and comfort is nice but it’s important to be tested and pushed out to the edge think of it like work hardening for steel you have to take those turns being placed in the fire heated to the edge and beat down only to be quenched and be stronger at the end of the day and it may be hard now but think of the end result and how much stronger and better of you will be when the tests are over
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I don’t know what Ryan is saying, he sounds like an incel. Caleb, focus on you. Don’t shift hatred towards women. Don’t shift it towards yourself. Pray if you need to. Above all else, do your best. Understand your energy, your place in the world, and keep going.