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How do y’all do it? 😞😞

Day 0
by Landon
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I think about doing it and then I just go on this spiral of which porn I like. I can’t keep doing this. I jerk and then I have this regret and then I wonder am I going to do this again. Everyone sees me as this perfect Christian but only do they know how bad this is. I’ve been doing it for five years and if feels like I’m on some type of drug. I have cried while praying telling myself I won’t do it again but then two days later it happens. I downloaded and app and gave a guy a blow job the other day and all I have been thinking about is that. I can’t stop thinking about that moment. It felt so good but bad so much depression after. I haven’t talked to my family since because I’m in such guilt. I’m scared to tell anyone for the things I’m in. I will feel embarrassed and mocked and made fun of. I don’t know what to do. It’s like I tell myself I’m not going to do it and then go use the bathroom and somehow end up doing it again. Someone please help.

Comments (6)
Landon118d ago

Thanks!!

Michael119d ago

Yea man , it’s very possible. Whatever your sexuality is is completely fine. My advice is to stay away from the porn. Allow your Brain to rewrite so you can truly see what and who you are naturally attracted to. That will get rid of the shame and depression. Stay strong young king 🚀🚀🚀

Landon119d ago

-I understand George. - I think porn led me to do that. When I started watching porn (which I was young) I didn’t know the difference between gay or straight. I kinda just looked up porn and that was the thing that popped up. Thinking at it, I think the porn led me to do that.

George 119d ago

I’m not the right man to give you advice about sexuality or relationships. I’m not a religious man and I have no views on anyone else’s sexuality but I understand how some people do. My comment above was focussed on the addiction side of things. Don’t wish to give the impression that I’m critical of anything about your sexuality.

Michael119d ago

Hey Landon. Sorry to hear you are struggling man. Question, do you find yourself attracted to men or do you think the porn led you to give the guy a blow job? I’m asking because even tho I am straight , I started to watch hay porn and fantasize about giving a blowjob. I never did it, and now that I am away from porn I realize it was just the porn twisting my Brain. Stay strong bro🚀🚀🚀

George 119d ago

Sorry to hear this mate, sounds like a rough time you’re having. We all go through things in life (not just addiction) where it’s just ‘chin up, shoulders back, let’s see what you’re made of’. Only gotta get through the next hour. You got this hour, don’t worry bout the next one yet. 60 minutes time you think about that one but for now, you got 60 minutes to get through. You’re there with this one. Go well pal.

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