Hey

Our minds always go to the worse. Disgusted might be a bit much but they will probably be disappointed, confused, hurt, all valid emotions. But bring it up in a way that you are inviting them to help you overcome this. Knowing mentally that is a war and it will be battle by battle. If you are able to be really open and honest you can show them the app, show them how many people struggle with this just like you. One thing I would say is, if you bring it up it because you are ready to be done with it and really fight. I’ve brought it up to my wife before just because I felt so ashamed, but at the time I truly wasn’t mentally at a place of understanding what this fight would look like. And I fell right back into it knowing that I told her I was done and wanted to work on my relationship with her. Let her down and myself down. But she was understanding and forgiving everytime (thank God). Listen, they might be disgusted, maybe because that’s how you feel yourself? I’m speaking from experience, that’s how I felt and still feel sometimes but my faith has and still is pushing me through to freedom. Everyone’s past looks different just trust that your significant other will understand that you are making moves to stay away from these temptations or urges not accepting and “not caring” hope that makes sense. Wish you the best man. Don’t give up