Did porn mess up anyone else’s sexuality. My whole life all I ever slept with is women and when I’m in public I’m only attracted to women. But when I use my imagination I can only get hard to gay fantasies. Is anyone else dealing with this?
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Not me personally but definitely not unheard of. At my worst I did begin to rely on fantasies that gradually got more extreme. After a while your brain does rewire to think of sex more normally. If when in real life you’re straight then engage more with real life and stop living in your fantasies. Your mind will revert to the information you are consuming.
You need to fight it. Those are spirits. And that is an abominable spirit making you feel that Luke 11:24–26: “When an impure spirit comes out of a person, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. Then it says, ‘I will return to the house I left.’ When it arrives, it finds the house swept clean and put in order. Then it goes and takes seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there. And the final condition of that person is worse than the first.” Leviticus 18:22 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.
Thanks for the encouragement, brothers! I really appreciate it! We may stumble, but we keep pressing forward, and God walks with us every step of the way. Let’s keep lifting each other up and pushing toward freedom together. And let’s keep fighting the good fight ! ❤️🩹💪🏽
Don’t be ashamed of this, this is actually common, as a porn addiction grows and festers the brain seeks harder stuff to get the same “high” which manifests in the development off fetishes or same sex attraction. If you are Christian and believe the demonic forces are at play it’s the natural progression to depravity see book of Romans 1: “So God abandoned them to do whatever shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they did vile and degrading things with each other’s bodies. They traded the truth about God for a lie. So they worshiped and served the things God created instead of the Creator himself, who is worthy of eternal praise! Amen. That is why God abandoned them to their shameful desires. Even the women turned against the natural way to have sex and instead indulged in sex with each other. And the men, instead of having normal sexual relations with women, burned with lust for each other. Men did shameful things with other men, and as a result of this sin, they suffered within themselves the penalty they deserved. Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, quarreling, deception, malicious behavior, and gossip.” Romans 1:24-27, 29 The good news is, is that your mind will begin to correct itself the further into recovery you are. God is good, don’t give up.
Homosexuality is often linked to hypersexuality. Our minds are always seeking more and more ways to stimulate it and that can either be a good tool for you, or it can be twisted into something that hurts you. This is a good journey for you to be on if this is a struggle for you. You’ll be in my prayers, man.
Yes I dealt with it. When I started masturbating, it was to normal guy/girl porn or lesbian porn. Then things changed. I liked bi porn and then gay porn. It even got to the point where I bought a sex doll and a set of dildos to use. Porn will make it so you have to go deeper and deeper to get the same feeling.
That’s wild stuff man but porn can do that to you stay away from that stuff
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Let me start by saying I’m a straight male. In the past, when I was watching porn multiple times every day, I began to feel more toward being bisexual and gender non conforming. That was years ago now, and ik it wasn’t who I am. I’m not blaming porn solely, but I doubt it didn’t play a role