Over analyzing conversations
Day 11
by Zach
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What’s up guys Talked to this girl at the gym today for the first time today and have been over analyzing how the convo went ever since. I’m not looking for anything, considering I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago, but I don’t know why I’m over thinking how the conversation went, etc. I met her earlier this week outside of the gym which was a nice way to break the ice. For me, this is growth to begin with because the old me on porn would never have approached her and talked to her. So it felt good to be confident and just go over to her and strike a conversation without hesitation. Do any of yall struggle with this to? If you do how do you combat it?
Yeah always struggled with talking to girls first. I usually wait for them to show interest then I’ll flirt back. I think you’re coming out of a relationship and thirsty for female interaction which is why you’re over analyzing it so much. But the fact you made the move to walk over to her and strike a conversation is huge and 70% of guys can’t do that. You just gotta also understand it’s a numbers game until you get a perfect vibe with a girl. You don’t wanna be too pushy and come off as a creep but if your getting flirtatious conversation with her then maybe take it further