Farthest I’ve gone without jacking off has been 3 days. Since then I’ve only made it like 2 days. I’m disappointed in myself in being unable to stop watching porn and stop pulling pork. Can anyone please give me some words of wisdom and advice to help me? Cause I’m temped every single day.
You have nothing to be disappointed in, especially not yourself. This is a journey that takes people years, and the fact you’ve started, and are actively attempting to quit, means you’re already ahead of most. The sad truth is that the temptation will be there everyday. When you least expect it, it will sneak into your mind, but it helps to change aspects of your day. If you find yourself confronted by tempting instagram reels, delete instagram. If it’s Facebook, delete it. If it’s your tv, don’t watch tv. You can’t grow in the same environment that lead you to the behavior in the first place. You’ve got this. Everyone believes in you and is standing behind you.
Fam you’re good take it one day at a time you can do this
You’re not alone brother, don’t beat yourself up we’re all in this together, you don’t stop trying, resist the temptation dawg, you can’t do it on your own. That’s why God sent Jesus his only son to come here on earth and die a gruesome death on the cross in our place, so that sin can be forgiven, and so that we have someone to fight the fight with us. When you get the temptation in your mind to look at porn, call on Jesus bro and tell him how you feel, be honest, because he already knows. And if you trust in him and believe in him and what he did and you hold remorse for your sin, he will cleanse you you just gotta put your trust in him, he will help you and we got you on here for sure. Don’t give up you got this 💯
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Keep the reason you want to stop at the forefront of your mind at all times. Especially when you are tempted. Stay away from social media, there are so many things that can pop up that can tempt you to relapse. Almost 6 days strong here and I’ve tried to stop for years, this is the longest I’ve gone and I don’t even think about it nearly as much as I used to. You’ve got this. Keep yourself busy, exercise, and most importantly, Keep your phone out of the bathroom or bedroom. (If those are the typical places you fap) this too shall pass. Keep strong brother. Godspeed