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Can someone help me with advice please

Day 0
by William
21 upvotes

I’ve just done it again, I feel like I too far gone to be saved, I got to a point where I said in my head “I don’t care” and I did it anyway and it must have hurt the lord emotionally and our relationship. I’m a massive failure and I need help really bad I want to over come it so bad but as soon as I’m tempted even a little I fall instantly without repentance

Comments (4)
Nathaniel145d ago

I’ve been there before too brother and I can promise you, God desires to see you free from this stronghold, just as He delivered the Israelites from slavery in Egypt, He will deliver you from porn and lust. Porn destroys the part of our brain that gives us self control and helps us make good decisions, that’s why sometimes it feels so difficult to resist an urge when it comes. We have to commit to rewiring our minds, the longer we stay away from it, our brain starts to heal itself from the negative effects of porn and we have more self control. Trust me God is with you and will help you, the enemy wants to destroy your life and keep you from fulfilling your purpose but God will not let that happen. We’re in this together bro, you’re never alone, we will all overcome lust in Jesus’ name

Anna145d ago

you are not a failure!!! take comfort in His arms, he chooses you even in the moment of sin. He's still calling you to be better, but He knows you're human. the fight is difficult, but be gracious to yourself and get back up again. you're not alone. we're rooting for you!!

Elijah145d ago

Hey man prayer and reading your bible is key but here are some additional tips for you to help you on your journey(I’m on day 34 rn btw) 1. Delete ALL social media ik its hard because your more bored but there is just to many trigger on there even with a good fyp they still push it. 2. Stay productive/busy constantly be doing things ESPECIALLY when your tempted for example get a new hobby, workout, take a walk, do that thing your procrasting, clean your house, do errands, literally anything to keep yourself busy. 3. Use a porn blocker and if possible give someone else the password. Here are some little bonus ones that helped me a lot don’t stay up late, try your best to not be isolated anywhere with your phone, create a little saying when temptations arise I personally use “I would rather have a GF then watch porn” I hope this helps you amor anyone else out there. Good Luck!

Andrew145d ago

You’re not too far gone brother. The Lord sees your heart and knows that you’re doing your best. I’ve been through those same feelings. There is a reason why we’re all going through this heavily. The enemy sees us as a threat because he knows the Lord has big plans for each and every one of us. That alone should fuel our determination to keep on going. We got to remind ourselves of why we even started in the first place. We got this brother 💪🏽

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