Does pleasure yourself to your significant other still ok?
Day 2
by Cam
63 upvotes
I personally think it’s ok. I went a couple days without pleasuring myself and I felt really bad urges, I think I can take long breaks in between but I feel the strong urge to still jerk off. I think it would help strengthen the connection with my significant other for me and feel much better and less shame with jerking off. What does everyone think?
I don’t think it’s OK until you can reach 100 days without doing that and have a healthy sexual relationship. Then after 100 days I think you could do it sparingly especially if you’re away from your significant other for a long periods and only if your thoughts are only on them.