my wife had moved back into a few weeks ago and she had asked about what i had done previously regarding porn and or dating apps or other people and i was honest and truthful about my usage of both. i forgot about a gaming app where you can meet new players based on your skills,games, etc. and she found a female in my discord with no messages exchanged except a hello by me. i legit just forgot about it in totality but now its a big deal because i’ve had an extensive history of lying and hiding things similar. i explained what the app was that i used. i explained i had probably seen this woman’s account and wanted to play games and it does not matter. i’m not sure what to do to help her but i need to talk about this. we had our first couples counseling today and it went very well. since she moved back in we’ve been very healthy and everything but i legit just had forgotten about this whole app and me messaging another woman to play games. i just feel lost and feel bad because i didn’t remember it.