Issues w/ Relationship and Porn
Day 2
by Jett
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TDLR: I caught my girlfriend messaging sexual things to her friends about her ex boyfriend. Which in turn led me down a rabbit hole that she recently saw him at an event she went out of her way to go to even though I wasn’t comfortable with it because I knew he’d be there. She lied about everything and I’ve kept prying and gotten to the point where her story is that she did see him and talk to him but that’s it. Which at first she lied and said she didn’t. Anyways all of this has me struggling with not falling back into the trap of watching porn. I don’t know if i should just end things with her, and how that’s gonna affect me mentally especially using porn as an outlet.
If being with her is going to be a source of stress, and ultimately make your urges to relapse more frequent, you might wanna reconsider the meaning of this relationship. At this point, trust is broken. Pour your heart into God and He will give you a Godly woman who you can trust.