Set standards
Day 3
by Vincent
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It’s important not to even give yourself an inch. For example I used to always go on escort websites and look at those, I now count even just that as a relapse. Do not give an inch! Even if you peek at porn for 3 seconds, you should reset your clock
Totally agreed. This approach also cuts down on decision fatigue over what is and isn’t acceptable. Basically: anything that you seek out for the purpose of sexual titillation is a relapse. Emphasis on ‘seek out,’ given that, in this culture, it’s hard to avoid sexualized content altogether.