My wife found out about my addiction

I agree with Robert. Make sure she knows that you’re aware of how she feels and why she feels it. Include her in your recovery. Also, don’t just do this for your marriage. Do it for yourself as well because if you don’t want it for yourself, stopping will be much harder

My addiction was the catalyst to my wife divorcing me some time ago. The lying and betrayal cuts deep for wives. This is your warning, do with it as you may. I pray God may stir a righteous calling within you.