Is my perception of sex really messed up or am I just more horny than my girlfriend? I ask to do the deed with my serious girlfriend and she declines and I’ll try anything that isn’t stepping over boundaries to get what I want. I want to be respectful but I get blue balls bad and just feel like I need it ya know? Lmk if anyone else deals with this.
It's not messed up to have a high sex drive, if you aren't being satisfied you need to have a serious conversation and communicate it. I've been there before with wildly different sex drives, eventually I stopped trying and we broke up, but if you actually value the relationship you need to communicate that your sex drive is high and talk about what y'all could do together.
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That’s something you have to sit and talk with her about, it could be a multitude of reasons, and be firm on how you feel don’t sugar coat it. Not only that, but find out what it is you truly want out of the relationship and be clear about it, you don’t want her to think that she’s only around for your pleasure.