I think my girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world. Is it bad If i masturbate to her and her only. No porn or OF models, etc. But to my girlfriend. We’ve been dating for a very long time but I didn’t wanna do something that might put my back right where i began. We have “photos”, “videos” if ykwim. Is it bad if i do it to them or is that the same as just watching and doing it to regular porn? Help would be greatly appreciated!
we aren’t long distance but actually live very close to each other. We go to the same school, workout together, etc. But that is a good point. Idk i just have such bad mindset that i think keeping “photos” and “videos” is okay. I usually only use them to masturbate bc i can’t contain myself. Damn man i appreciate your perspective.
From what I’ve seen, not from experience I want to preface. If you are fantasizing and compulsively watching video of your GF and you then it’s not good for you. You gotta define if that’s good for you and strengthens your relationship with her or creates distance. If it’s sneaky and not open then probably not good. If you feel it’s setting you back and giving to lustful thoughts then I’d realize that and decide.
Are you long distance? If not, ask yourself why you need photos or videos when she is right there. Maybe you have a fear of rejection? If you are long distance, remember this: the orgasm isn’t the goal, the goal is your girlfriend. Talk to her sweetly and let her voice be everything you need, not pixels on a screen. Ultimately it boils down to what your goals are and how it affects your perceptions.
okay thanks man
It’s bad and can lead to old ways. God says if you look at a girl lustfully you have committed adultry in your heart. If you’re not married i would stay away and flee from sexual sin as it leads to death
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If you got those videos it’s pretty hard to resist. Instead of fighting those head on, I’d remove those and let them go. Release the temptation.