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I'm here because my brain doesn't see the problem.

Day 0
by Max
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Now 28 and having started watching porn when I was basically 12, I've come here involuntarily. Honestly I had given up the fight against porn because it seems like it permeates every corner of the internet and it shaped my mind. This isn't about my high sex drive. It's about the fact that personally I find it easier to watch porn than to do something meaningful. I watch porn when I'm stressed. I watch porn to experience things I'm afraid I will never get to experience in a real sexual relationship. And I've become so desensitized that it's not even that fun unless I go and watch something more extreme each time. I haven't experienced many of the effects that I hear others have in their battle with porn addiction. But when will it be my turn? I always thought I'd quit one day. And now it's looking like if I don't stop now, despite having given up, I'm just gonna have an addiction that is old enough to legally buy alcohol. Frankly I'm just grateful that I can share my thoughts with others.

Comments (2)
Hendrik100d ago

You are not alone

You100d ago

Hey Max, thank you so much for sharing. I feel the exact same way. Our brain has been so numb to this addiction that we need smtg more extreme everytime we go back to it. I remember the first time reading porn, I told myself I'll never get back into it, same goes to the rest of us here. Then when i started reading porn comics everyday, but I told myself I wouldn't look at gay or lesbian porn, but eventually I got into it as well. Then i told myself I'll only look at drawn porn but never real life porn but eventually i gave in too. Until one night at 3 am, i was masturbating, i accidentally came across child porn. It traumatized me so much that night i couldnt sleep that night and felt so scared and anxious the next few days I stopped masturbating. But that was enough of a wake up call to me. Bc just like you, i too question myself when will it be my turn? I always said ill stop n won't cross certain line but i always end up doing it. The thought of becoming a pedophile or hurting people in real life, i rather kms than let that happen. But i guess that shows theres still a sane part of me. It was fine hurting myself until I realized that it can hurt people too. This is one of my biggest reason for wanting to stop this addiction and i hope my story will encourage you to do the same in some way. Or at the very least, i hope you know that you're not in this alone. Let's overcome this together 🤝

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