You have to communicate things like this with your wife. I’m just learning how to be healthy in married sexual relationships (well just my one), but I think when a wife does the sex teasing over text or the phone, she is wanting to leave her man frustrated and horny for her, wanting to take off early, Skip any other stops, get home and get busy with a God- honoring good time of marital intimacy that will leave the both of you so weak and worn out you can barely walk to the bathroom to clean up! Meaning, hell no! She doesn’t want you jerking off because you’re hot under your belt—she got you that way and she wants you to stay that way for her! Now say you’re in the military or working a long ways from home…you two communicate and agree about whether and hope you masturbate. Some couples want to video chat and masturbate together so it’s as close to marital sex as they can get. Point is talk with her.

It’s not easy but your situation is not unique. Through God, you have the power to fight this temptation. Praying for you Caleb

I hung out with my girlfriend this past weekend and she was ready to get me off before I told her about my newfound journey to quit porn for real this time (she’s aware of my struggles with lust). Anyway, she wasn’t in the mood anymore and I was completely blue balled. It sucked but I tried to take it with grace. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t disappointed. But I was determined not to go home from my visit and return to my old ways. I dug into the gospel with my close friend and we prayed. Then, I went to bed and the temptation was gone. I think you should do the same.

Stay strong brother

I don't want to break my streak but she's getting me off over text