A lot of the time my urges arise from getting booty pictures from my girlfriend. Of course I love getting them, I kind of ask sometimes, but we love each other and she likes to send them too and will surprise me since we are long distance, but don’t know entirely what to do. Is it healthy to keep this up? Do I say something to her? Just trying to be my best self
I see where yall are coming from, but if you all are long distance and she’s sending you booty pics, I don’t consider it porn. That is both of yall sharing an emotional/sexual and are bonding. If quitting porn helps us return physical attraction and intimacy to our partners and you’re masturbating to that, I don’t see that as a problem. That’s love and your fantasizing about the woman you loved. Saying you have a porn addiction and don’t want booty pics from your girlfriend can also give off the impression that you don’t find her attractive. Maybe to help regulate it, you all can set time aside and make it a date night FaceTime. That way the images aren’t saved on your phone, but you get to share a special moment with your partner.
Stay strong JD
Porn is porn, doesn't matter where it's coming from. If you don't want to relapse, eliminate all temptations. Otherwise, you're leaving doors open that you may fall into in the future
I think you should be honest to her for the sake of your relationship and if she really loves you and is all in she will accept that and help you on your recovery. ❤️
@Cody I’ve admitted to her I’ve struggled with porn, but haven’t been entirely honest that it’s still a somewhat active problem
That’s definitely hard… maybe ask her how she feels about it
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@arib thank you!