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My Reason For Change

Day 4
by Tyler
112 upvotes

These are my reasons for change. I read them everyday and have been reading every time I get an urge to turn back and give into lust. • I want to build a closer relationship with God, and I recognize there’s a major hurdle in my life that’s creating distance in that relationship. • I want to have a healthy desire and mindset when it comes to pursuing women. • I recently learned that my older brother sexually abused my sister, and the pain my sister once endured has motivated me to break generational cycles of sexual baggage in my family. • I’ve struggled with porn since a very young age 11-12. These habits have taken up so much of my time, energy, and motivation to grow. I want to break this cycle so I can live a lifestyle full of purpose, healthy relationships, and success. • I want a higher libido and sex drive! I would like to feel more motivated and confident in building real relationships. I’m 24 years old and have found it easier at times to isolate and turn to porn rather than pursue meaningful connection, but I want to change that. • I would like to find a partner and potential spouse. I want to bring the best version of myself into a relationship—free of baggage. I want to stand confidently beside my future wife, free from the struggles that have weighed me down in the past and not struggle with lust and pornography. These are my reasons, what’s are yours!?

Comments (2)
Tyler131d ago

I’m sorry you went through that! I pray you can break this addiction! I believe in you! Jan 1 this year I quit porn for a week and relapsed. I haven’t been able to get past a week since. I found this app, wrote these reasons down, and have been so much more consistent in stopping. This is almost 6 days total porn free now. I’m very confident this go around and writing down your whys and reasons for quitting and reading them every day has helped me stay consistent!

Ally132d ago

I have truamas that start from the age of 3 all the way to 16 which I believe contributed to my behaviour and porn consumption over the last 15 years. I believe the rest of my family all have their own traumas. I want to break the cycle and let my future self and family live hurt free as best as possible

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