I am on my journey on quitting porn , but every time I get depressed about not having a gf ( which is one of the reasons why I wanna quit) I think what’s the point of this? If I go let’s say 100 days without porn is God gonna place a woman in my life? Maybe, probably not though. So what’s the point of this? I know it’s a sin and we should flee sexual immorality but other than that?
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Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD. The key word in this verse is find, the definition of the word find is “discover or perceive by chance or unexpectedly.” I think the best way do that is by completely submitting to gods word and getting closer to him, and some where along the way when he wills it you’ll find the women whom he’s prepared for you
It’s actually a really valid point and I feel the same sometimes. I tell myself I’m doing it for when that time comes and so I won’t be a degenerate who can only get turned on by a screen.
You might not have a woman but God is preparing you for one and by getting rid of porn it will help you look at a woman with not as much lust
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God helps those who help themselves. If you’re depressed you don’t have a girlfriend, then what are you doing in your everyday life to meet that goal? You have to take the first steps. If you’re religious, go to church / masjid every Sunday and get involved in the community. If not, join adult sports leagues, yoga / dance studios. You need to place yourself where God can help you. Don’t expect God to send a woman to your apartment. It can happen, but why not make it easier for yourself and God by cleaning up and joining some communities? It’ll also help with this addiction. Stay strong brother 💪