I wanna stop but I can’t and I wanna stop so I can date the girl that I like

you just need to understand with your mind that you don't need this shit and that porn is slowly killing your male potential, willpower won't always help here, a scientific and smart approach is needed here

You dating the girl you like has nothing to do with porn unless the only reason she doesn’t want to date you is because you watch too much porn. Abstaining from porn might increase your confidence and testosterone but overall nothing is stopping you to date the girl you like but yourself, maybe fear of rejection? Anyways, you got this brother, shoot your shot. You miss all shots you don’t take.