If a girl that I’m talking to sends me nudes, does that count?

Not if you close the deal with her legs up. Then it doesn’t count.

As in it doesn’t count as a relapse if you don’t jerk off to them. My advice is to not keep the photos, trust me, it makes things harder

If you don’t keep the photos and you don’t jerk off to them, you’re good.

In my opinion, yes, it does count, because even if you’re not actively searching for it or intending to look at it, it’s still the same kind of stimulus for the mind.

Yes i would count it

Wait for the real thing

Kindof, why not wait for the real thing and be different to all the other guys chasing the same thing