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I Was 116 Days Clean… But

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by Kæye
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The first time I lost my 116 day streak… What I did not know is that it would be a start of my relapse repetitive cycle. Back to the PMO. I lost all control. First it was every 5 days. Then it became every 3 days. As of recent… It became every day. I forgot my ‘why’. I forgot my ‘vision’. I forgot my ‘purpose’. It’s agitating, especially as a Christian man. I know this is not what I am called for. I’ve seen glimpse of what success looks like for me but I am killing it by sinking myself back into the depth of sin. I’ve relapsed multiple times in my life. But this most certainly was the worse. I found myself actively seeking ways to bypass restrictions. I have stooped low and lessened my life. I stooped to the level of mediocrity and GOD-FOR-REALLY-BID. I’ve got a future family to feed and a future wife to provide for. This will not be attached to me when that time arrives. I’m stronger. I’m wiser. I’m in Christ. All good things are reserved for those who love Christ dearly. So there can be no way that extreme misery becomes my portion due to my actions and inactions. I just ranted a little bit. But I needed to get it off my chest.

Comments (18)
Ricardo71d ago

It’s beautiful to know and also be encouraged that’s it’s one step at a time,we’ll make it with God’s help

Kæye71d ago

The Christian Community is strong on this app ‼️

Mikey71d ago

I am right there with you. I made it to a 20 day streak and I was so proud of myself for making it 2x as far as I have ever made it. I was stuck in a 10 day cycle. Finally I buckled down and found what triggers me. Got that trigger under control and made it past 10 days. At 15 days I was like I got this. Made it to 20 days and was over the moon. I knew I was going to beat it this time. I locked down all my ways of getting off my path. Deleted Instagram and X. Unfollowed all the post on Facebook that would make me stumble and made my TikTok algorithm more focused on God. What caused my relapse? A harmless flirt from a woman. For some reason I spiraled and relapsed. Felt so terrible and the guilt killed me. So what did I do? Relapse 10 mins later. I will get back there with my focus on God. God bless brothers!!! We got this 💪🏻

Kæye71d ago

HALLELUJAH 🙌🏿

David71d ago

The righteous man falls seven times but rises again! Keep at it!

Garrett71d ago

May the Lord protect you as you continue your journey! I pray that the enemy would not get a foothold in your life and that this determination to start again will weaken the enemy. Jesus protect this man so that he would be an example of your healing power would his testimony lead others to you. Lord what the enemy intended for evil you can turn to good. And so I pray that fruits of the spirit would abound in Kaeye even more now than before. Lord may your will be done in Kaeye’s life and may your anointing be crystal clear

Kæye71d ago

This Sunday service is also feeding me spiritually.

Kæye71d ago

These comments are truly waking me up. Wow, it’s genuinely refreshing. These are the reminders in which I needed. I need to share more. This has touched me. Thank You Guys! 💪🏾

Alan Tognetti71d ago

You can do this man. Let this be the long and final run brother. Christ is with us

Brady71d ago

God Bless you

Brandon James71d ago

I’m 80 days clean your testimony is a humble reminder that anyone can still fall thank you brother

Michael71d ago

God holds your future brother.

Brent71d ago

✊✊✊

Adam71d ago

I feel like when we fall off it’s even harder to get back up. But it’s not impossible! I believe in you brother.

Alex Slater71d ago

You got this brother

Nathaniel71d ago

I can relate brother, it’s not easy but know that God has given us POWER to overcome, the same POWER that raised our Lord from the dead. We can never be defeated. We are victorious in Jesus’ name. Stay strong brother💪🏾

Kæye71d ago

God Richly Bless you for the encouragement. I definitely do feel as if I’m attaining my focus back

PB71d ago

beautifully said man, you’re back at square one but it’s cool with Christ we can all make it. You’ve done it before you can do it again I believe in you bro🤞

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