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How long until I can pursue an actual relationship?

Day 0
by Joshua
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I understand I’m clearly not there yet, but it’s constantly a question in my mind and I’m curious to know other’s opinions. Would you say there’s a certain number of days? Will I just know when it’s the right time? Curious to hear any and all opinions on it. Also, I am asking this from a Christian point of view

Comments (5)
Jakob210d ago

Yea man, if you really like a girl, go talk to her. The worst she can do is say no etc. It hurts but life goes on…

S210d ago

Be open to the idea of the right woman coming along, but don’t rush into anything.

Mikey210d ago

The timing is different for everyone but let Jesus be your focus until he shows you when to pursue a relationship. I wouldn’t even put a time on it my guy

Mikey210d ago

Truth be told that the more this cycle continues and I believe you are going to dead this cycle in the name of Jesus!!! We all are !! The thing is here my guy, this thing destroys SELF, ruins RELATIONSHIPS & FRIENDSHIPS and the icing on the cake it SEPARATES YOU from God! It distances you from him and causes conflict all over the place. Sexual immorality is the only sin that goes against God and your own body.

Mikey210d ago

Brother man! I’d say the start of that is a relationship chasing Christ. It’s the place where he fixes you, because we clearly need Him to help us and fix us. If we are having this thing of porn and masturbation that trips us up then we don’t really know how to truly love ourselves or to love someone properly. The love we are trying to give to someone else we need to give it to Jesus and getting to know him. Date Jesus as crazy as it sounds but yes bro that’s the key.

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