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First post; I don't wanna lose her

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Day 0
by Cody
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My first day on this app and it's been a rough day. My girlfriend and I are at a place right now where our sex life is being severely affected because of my actions. I have very low sex drive and low motivation for real sex. I can't even orgasm during sex because of the frequency of which I've watched porn. This is no way for a man to live, and frankly I just don't want my girlfriend to throw in the towel on me. I love her way too much and I love her enough to make a change. I have high hopes being here.

Comments (17)
Cody66d ago

Thank you all for your support and encouraging words. My girlfriend and I are much better today

Axel67d ago

Hey Cody. I've been in this same situation before and I can tell it went just like this. My girlfriend wasn't very happy with my doings and was even counting it as cheating. You may feel a bit down right now, maybe even hate yourself, but don't do that. We make mistakes all the time and quitting isn't easy when you have had the addiction for years. Stay focused, you got this.

D67d ago

You will eventually look back on this post and be so proud of your hard work. Stay focused

Jah’sim67d ago

Stay locked man you got it

Jason67d ago

Im right there with you brother. I know it hard to kick this addiction but man i cant even imagine how hard life would be without her. Love is a choice you make everyday. You have to choose her over porn everyday.

Anonymous67d ago

yk because of this post you’ve helped me decide to reserve my seed after getting tempted cause i don’t want my future wife or girlfriend to discover this bad trait . It needs ALOT of sexual discipline as much as these dirty videos get tempting .

Ben67d ago

Prove to her you love her enough to do this for her. Cause trust me bro, the pain of losing her would be unbearable

Mark67d ago

I think it’s called delayed ejaculation. I’m going through that now & 10 days free now. I hope you stay strong against the temptation.

El-Ryck67d ago

Keep fighting bro

Andy67d ago

Brother I was in the same boat and I’m on day 20 and I can already see a huge difference in my sex life. You’re going to have to fight your demons and really fight the urge. We got this !!!!

Jonathan67d ago

We’re all rooting for you. You got this!

Vladimir67d ago

You can do it man, I recently started to, because I felt distant from God. The Demon of lust is a powerful one but we are even more powerful. Don’t just do it for your girlfriend do it for yourself and future relationship/interactions

Sean67d ago

Get to it brother I know you can do it. The hardest moments are that of low intensity where it’s a normal Tuesday with nothing going on remember that and stay on track. Love you brother

joesph Winkelman67d ago

Remind yourself of that daily you got this🫶🏽

Alexander67d ago

Fight for it everyday

S67d ago

You got this man “ nothing will change if nothing changes”

Darnell Lias67d ago

U got this bro stay strong

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