What is the goal

*we all

Thanks for all the great input guys I hope we walk continue to grow!

Find yourself a passion and dedicate all your days to that passion from morning to night, until you are tired. The problem when you do that is that you lack meaning, and I don’t throw stones at you because I’m also on the road to redemption Imagining scenes will never be as powerful as watching them, and it will push you to do it, and it will be much stronger than you, even if you think it won’t be. Don’t lie to yourself and run away Falling on the yoke of your emotions is not your fault. But intentionally choosing to be tempted is your responsibility. So concentrate, sign up for boxing, launch a Business next door, and dedicate your day completely, and above all don’t stay alone at home. The problem is not that you can’t stop, the problem is that you continue to have the same habits that push you to do it Change your habits, and you won’t even think about it anymore

Having a coffee in the morning can be “healthy,” but if you were to develop a severe caffeine addiction to where you feel too tired without and cannot function then it would be better to quit coffee altogether. Masturbating for me personally leads to porn very easily, or at least very sexual thoughts and fantasies, neither being good.

What I would recommend if you don’t have a gf definitely try to stay away from both it’s definitely possible but of course it’s hard with the urges but just fight through it!

the goal is to stop doing both and get closer to God.