Just over 2 weeks in
Day 16
by Tom
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I’ve recently started seeing someone new and it’s really helped with not watching porn as she’s “helped me out” when we’ve messaged. I was last with her about 2 weeks ago after I was about 5 days in. Safe to say had some performance issues but managed to get around it but couldn’t stay fully hard for long at all. In this 2 weeks I thought it would be better but I feel like my libido has dropped and I don’t want to have sex as much and the thought doesn’t excite me as much as when I was watching porn it feels really anti productive and not sure on the reasoning. Suppose to meet her again this weekend and she’s made it clear she wants a lot of sex and don’t know if it’s just performance anxiety.
It’s always happened when I first start getting with someone then it goes but I couldn’t even have sex before for like a month of meeting, so I guess this is progress lol