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Girlfriend’s nudes

Day 76
by Alex
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(18 years old in high school so we live apart) Once I acknowledged I had a problem it became so much harder to stop watching porn my reason to stop was because it was affecting my mind my causing a conflicting relationship with god and causing my girlfriend to overthink asking her self if I just masturbate to every girl I see shaking there ass on social media. It makes her feel insecure about her self and her body but she told me that she’d just rather have me do it to her than to other stuff but is that still healthy will that help is that normal I don’t know it feels okay but at the same time I still feel like need to ask I’m just so confused I want her to feel loved and like I have eyes for nobody else than her because ei do and my addiction to porn came from my pent up stress since young it’s always been an instant just to take out my stress like that but then should I just take it out to masturbating to her

Comments (3)
Michael110d ago

In the end if you look at other girls nudes you will end up pushing her away.

Michael110d ago

I don't know the whole situation here but heres what I think. Other random girls you see online are a no go. You've already seen the results of that. If you want to get rid of this addiction your going to need to cut off social media that traps you in this thirst traps. Maybe lessen your exposure to your girlfriend's nudes for a bit. But that's something you have to discuss with her about. Does she know your on this journey? If so how much does she know? I think if you open up to her it will really help.

B110d ago

I don’t think she feels very loved when sending you nudes because of her Insecurity about Your porn habits. Just decide to take responsibility and stop fapping and feeding the Instant Gratification Addiction. You know your trigger is stress, so learn better ways to deal with it! Read books, watch videos from professionals and invest in learning to manage stress so that your girlfriend can have peace of mind in your relationship!

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