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I wonder…

Day 0
by Stephen
16 upvotes

I am 34 struggling since I was 13, when I first got introduced by a pop up. I feel like I’ve struggled for so long that I won’t ever get married. I have had 2 girlfriends, only one of them had sex, but I feel so ashamed that I dont even have the courage to ask anyone out. But as a Christian I know that Paul talks about it’s better to marry than to burn with desire. But How ???? How do I get past the dating phase??

Comments (9)
Dan🎱82d ago

I’d recommend reading 1 Cor chapters 5-7 all of them are supposed to be read as one statement regarding sexual morality and ethics

Dan🎱82d ago

Corinthians

Dan🎱82d ago

I found what I was referring to, I was thinking of 1 corthians 7:36

Dan🎱82d ago

You right, sorry. Also they were Corinthians so they were kinda all over the place when it came to marriage.

Stephen82d ago

Dan. Where does it say that person is engaged?

Dan🎱82d ago

Make sure your next girl knows that you’re either had issues or are currently recovering from PMO. As a single guy that’s al the advice that I can can really give you. Also the type of couple that Paul is referencing is engaged; Don’t move to fast and get into a marriage out of loneliness

Dan🎱82d ago

I don’t like to step on Catholics, but one of the reasons that they have so many scandals in comparison to Protestants, is because of their poor understanding of that part of scripture

Dan🎱82d ago

The gift of singleness and having the gift of singleness are two different things. One is taking the extra free time that you currently have before marriage and giving it to God; The other is being asexual, castrated or having self control. If you are on this app than you probably don’t have the latter

Daniel82d ago

Focus on God’s will first is my suggestion. There is nothing wrong with being single for God. Everyone has a calling. I am starting to be okay with remaining single at 32. Do I still want a wife and children of course but God’s will way above mine. Whatever his will is. It’ll get done

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