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Does Masterbation count as a relapse?

Day 5
by Caleb
77 upvotes

Hey Y’all, I’m new on this journey and need a little guidance from others. I’m currently on day 5 of no porn usage - however, I still intentionally masterbated twice within that same time period, albeit without any porn. My struggle is twofold: my goal is to sexually pure not reliant on any kind sexual stimulus and secondly I want to explicitly remove porn from my life. My problem now is do I use this app and by extension the counter to indicate days without porn usage or do I use it more towards my heart’s alignment which is sexual purity? I would like to hear what others think.

Comments (2)
Caleb55d ago

Hey Noah, I appreciate your response. I feel similar sentiments regarding porn and masturbation usage. I want to avoid any pitfalls before they become bigger and harder to avoid. I want to ensure I hold myself accountable and to a higher standard and believe through a reset I’ll have more of an objective and reflective journey to get there. I appreciate your feedback.

Noah55d ago

Caleb, ultimately this is up to you. I feel like in my own journey, I need to cut out both porn and masturbation. They both fuel lust and sexual immorality. I tried to convince myself I could masturbate “cleanly” but even without porn, found myself thinking of lustful things during the deed. Like I said though, that’s my own belief and goal for this journey. You ultimately need to decide for yourself. If you’re questioning it though, I would challenge you to answer the question if you are able to be sexually pure while you are actively masturbating.

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