porn was a thing i think be able too have a phone or ig me being born in modern time kinda fucked me but i know god will help me threw this but i just have no luck with girls i feel ugly and dirty but idk life is hard please pray for me 🙏🙏
Think about your future while you’re so young and what would happen if you keep down this path.
You got this man, you’re just like every human bro, it’s actually very common at your age. As someone who ministers to youth I can tell you you’re not alone I can guarantee that. The youngest student who has told me they been dealing with that is like 8. However what used to be incredibly hard to get ahold of is at everyone’s fingertips now. The best thing I can tell you is don’t make excuses, own your actions, and don’t try to compromise. God will help you but you gotta believe he can. And the Bible is very clear about not making excuses. You can get through this but it’s gonna take work man, you probably just don’t have luck with types girls that you’re so used to seeing on your screen. That doesn’t mean you won’t have luck with girls you just gotta choose the right ones and pursue them. Unfortunately porn doesn’t make that easy to do but feeling Ugly when you are created in God’s image is a long stretch. Feeling ugly and dirty are 2 different things. You feel dirty because you know what your giving into is bad. But condemning yourself isn’t gonna make it better.
The fact that you’re just 15 and already on the path of getting away from this trap allows me to have faith that you will be just fine. Above everything else keep God and your faith first. Lust and porn will leave you feeling ugly and dirty and worst of all distant from God. Focus on him and realize that you don’t need girls nor the validation from them to feel loved. Keep going bro you got this
you’ll be alright brother. been struggling for years. stay strong
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Hey man, I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. First off, thank you for being honest—it takes a lot of strength to open up like this. You’re definitely not alone. A lot of people struggle with the same things, especially growing up in today’s world where everything’s online and comparison is constant. Please don’t believe the lie that you’re ugly or unworthy just because things aren’t going your way right now. You’re still becoming who you’re meant to be. Confidence and self-worth don’t come from likes, girls, or social media—they come from knowing that you matter just as you are. Porn and phones can seriously mess with our minds and expectations—it’s not your fault. But you can start healing by focusing on small wins: take breaks from the internet, talk to people you trust, move your body, create something, pray, or even journal your thoughts. Life is hard sometimes, but it also gets better. Keep showing up. God sees you. People care. And your story isn’t over—it’s just getting started. Praying for you. Keep going—you’re not broken. You’re growing.