Have I messed up?
Day 26
by ciaran
10 upvotes
I’m on nearly 30 days. Me and my partner haven’t been having sex for various personal reasons. In the time since I started we’ve had sex twice. I was really pent up and felt the need to release. I didn’t watch porn but I did masturbated and nutted. Have I failed here? My aim wasn’t necessarily to be completely no nut, however I was aiming for it as it reckoned it would help my recovery. Again reiterating I didn’t use porn for this act
If the definition of sobriety is not having sex with yourself or anybody else other than your partner, then you could say that yes. If sobriety is not watching porn then no you haven’t failed so I guess it depends on your definition.