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I am but I’m also fighting the realization that I might’ve suffered from hyper sexuality my entire life without realizing it. After I stopped using P (I still think I’ll MO through healthier means) it began to skyrocket even more. I’m not sure if you can make your partner more active :/ luckily my partner is most of the time but there will be times where it isn’t the highest on the list. I feel like it might be best to ask for help and see how she responds while not pushing. It might also be worth asking if there’s other ways for her to help besides sex (HJ, BJ, using a toy on you, etc)

Do you find that you have a much higher sex drive than your girlfriend? I certainly have this problem, and I want to know how to help her want to have sex more frequently.