GF SAYS NOT TONIGHT WHAT NOW?

Day 2

by Arian

January 11, 2025 at 06:32 AM

14 upvotes

I was 4 days clean then I relapsed now I’m 2 days clean. I’m angry because my gf hinted at the idea of us having sex tonight but now she’s not in the mood. Ur made me very irritable and I’m tempted to just go in the bathroom and watch porn. Is it bad that part of me feels like if we had more sex I wouldn’t need to masturbate as much. Buts it’s probably even more bad that I know that’s just an excuse yet I still kinda feel that way. We have a great relationship otherwise. Idk what to do with this anger and lust.

Comments (3)

Jaiden•219d ago

Pray about it. God tells you to flee sexual immorality. Lust destroyed the wisest man in the Bible. It also destroyed the strongest. Yalls purity should be protected within marriage

Riley•220d ago

Consent is in the moment, it’s perfectly normal to be in the mood at one point in the day and not be in the mood later on. What you’re fighting is a reliance on pleasure, from where it matters not. Have you told her that you’re fighting this? Talking it out can help, as long as you understand that she doesn’t owe you her body just because you want it. Sex is best enjoyed when both parties genuinely want to participate.

Detrick•220d ago

Meditate and try to Get to the root of the problem

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