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i may have relapsed or almost relapsed

Day 18
by Christian
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i was on instagram when the algorithm recommended a big booby girl to my feed. i clicked on her profile to see all her videos there was no nudity really but she was just bouncing and jiggling away with her clothes on and the worst being a bikini type of clothing. would anyone count that as a relapse? it was not porn and i did not masturbate and i muted her page to never see it again. for the rest of the day i felt and am currently strongly feeling the urge to relapse but the day is over and im going to sleep now luckily. deleting the instagram app because i cannot fix the algorithm for the life of me. thanks for reading. farewells and good night

Comments (8)
Tom76d ago

Alright thank you

Mitch76d ago

I realize I had a typo “between a lapse and a relapse” but I agree with Christian - leaving room for error will more than likely lead to slow progress.

Christian76d ago

So if I lapse I’m going to reset

Christian76d ago

The way I’m treating a relapse in this app is a lapse or what I’m used to calling a slip. I feel like if I stick to the actually definition of relapse I’m going to make excuses and let myself lapse every now and then.

Mitch76d ago

I did some research and think knowing the difference between these terms may help: The Difference Between A Lapse And A A lapse is a temporary deviation from sobriety, whereas a relapse is a return to the patterns of addiction that the individual worked so hard to overcome. So while many of us lapse in these cases where we are tempted to repeat our negative behavior, a true relapse is intentionally looking up or engaging content and finishing, triggering the brain chemicals and feelings of post nut. This is not an expert take just someone who was also curious about the lines

Tom76d ago

What really counts as a relapse then? like idk. I’ve been at it for a week and this is the first time I’ve had a huge urge after seeing that’s one picture but I didn’t do anything and closed it straight away. Anyway I’d just like some clarity around what a relapse really is? Thanks

Mene76d ago

That doesn’t count as relapse don’t worry

Tom76d ago

Literally same thing just happened to me, would like some help as well

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