Update: dealing with urges and insecurities
I’ve gone now 14 days without porn or masturbating. There have been times when I’ve felt tempted and my urges came about to just simply watch it and pleasure myself because that voice im sure everyone is familiar with “why not?” It won’t kill u visited me. But I chose to shut it out and cast it down before me. So I’m still doing pretty good. On the other hand, I have been able to sit with myself and discover the insecurities that I have. Now that I know what they are, I’m able now to deal with them the right way and remind myself everyday when I get up and look in the mirror that I am more than enough and everything I need is right inside of me. I will continue to strive to become the man the Most high God sees me to be. A comprehensive man who is confident, strong, kind, and lives from the goodness of his heart and not from a place of fear. 🙏🏾 thanks to anyone who took the time to read this and I say to everyone on here: keep the faith and keep pressing forward! Shalom.
It really helped me to get my reason to quit down. Think about your reason to quit and type that in. Use the PANIC Button! When you do, you’ll see that reason to quit and be reminded of whatever is important to you, maybe… - not letting porn get between you and God - protecting your mind and emotions - to be a better athlete (porn causes athletes to suck at their game) - avoiding sexual problems like porn-ED - being able to have great relationships with real people-a real social life - being able to have a right relationship with the right woman when that day comes, to be a great husband and father, best of all, to give and get mind blowing God-honoring sex - there’s a bunch of other great reasons you may want to include—-use what is important to you!